Monday, October 14, 2019

I grieve for my child

I grieve for my child
Even though they are not dead
And they are still alive

I grieve for my child
Even though they are not missing
Only missing from me

I grieve for my child
Because someone hates me
More than they love my child

I grieve for my child
As they are a part of me
So I will never get closure

I grieve for my child
Their smell, their touch, their voice
But most of all, their smile

I grieve for my child
Because I am human
And no one should have to endure this

I grieve for my child       
As I am their parent
And they are my child

Thursday, September 19, 2019

Welcome!

Welcome!

Welcome to Minnesota Alienated Parents new blog!  The objective of these posts will be to inform and educate our readers about alienated families.  We want to help you help yourself, your kids and others.  None of us can do this alone, but together we can support, teach and help each other recover.

Some of the things we're going to discuss include how this is so easy for alienators to target you and your children.  We'll talk about why it's so hard to get help and how well meaning (and sometimes self-serving) people very often make the situation much worse, severely harming children in the process.  We're going to talk about what you need to do for yourself before you can help recover your kids and what things you can do to begin the recovery process for them too.  We will not forget to talk about legal issues such as attorneys, judges, PC's, and let's not forget about therapy!  Yes, there is a whole crate of worms we'll dive into.  There is no way around alienation, only onward and through.  But you are not alone.  We're here with you.

A very important thing to remember through all of this trauma is that your children love you, no matter what anyone says.  Children love their parents.  That's how attachment works.  That's nature.  We know you love them too.  That's also the natural order of things.  It is completely un-natural for a child to reject their parent, even very problematic ones.  We can get into that more later on, for now, just don't forget that your kids do love you.  ♥️

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